Dinging a Sugar Daddy is not an easy thing to do, especially when nowadays there are an abundance of apps and platforms dedicated to sugar dating. That’s why you need to be extra careful to see all the red flags, and to clearly know what your expectations are in terms of how your Sugar Daddy should be.
The first thing that you need to do when deciding to find a Sugar Daddy is think it through. Think of the things that you want to get out of this – a monthly allowance, shopping sprees, fancy dinner dates and gifts, vacations, or maybe your tuition paid.
Make your goals clear in your mind, because only when YOU clearly know what you are looking for, you can start going for that goal and make your claims to your potential Sugar Daddy.
Next, think of the things you are willing to sacrifice, or offer to your Sugar Daddy – if he is a busy guy that asks that you are always available for him, think if you are willing to give away your free time and always be waiting for him to call you.
If you decide you are not ok with sitting around waiting for the Sugar Daddy to clear up his schedule and make time for you, say that from the very beginning, to avoid this situation in the future.
Be honest and clear about who you are, what you like, what you dislike, what you are willing to do and what is a definite NO from your behalf.
Don’t make the mistake of embellishing your Sugar Baby description or of saying that you like something or have some skills that you really don’t have, because later on you will be facing reality and your Sugar Daddy will feel deceived.
For example, don’t say you love winter and winter sports, when you actually hate the cold and you can’t sky, because otherwise your Sugar Daddy may think of inviting you to a skiing trip, and when he’ll see that you deceived him and feel betrayed.
Don’t say you love dogs just to impress him after seeing his photos depicting him with his favorite dog, because he may take you out on a walk in the park or a hike with his pet and you’ll see yourself put in an awkward and uncomfortable situation.
Another mistake you could make when dating a Sugar Daddy is wearing clothes, accessories or makeup that you don’t feel confident or comfortable wearing. When you wear something that doesn’t represent you, you will feel uncomfortable and won’t be able to just be yourself, natural and fully relaxed.
Also, if you try to dress with clothes that are way over your budget, you will soon find that you can’t maintain that image in the long run, because wearing designer clothes is an expensive endeavor that can’t be sustained for long if you don’t have the financial means.
Be honest, be genuine, be yourself, and don’t try to impress your Sugar Daddy by posing as something that you are not.