Finding the right Sugar Baby to date, that perfect woman that: understands your needs, meets your expectations, gives you the space that you want, shows interest in your life and profession, knows how to be a great listener and a passionate lover, can be a real challenge, especially when the Sugar Baby offer is so vast nowadays.
But what’s even more challenging is knowing how to keep your Sugar Relationship alive and thriving, because even a Sugar Baby has some needs that you must support and fulfill if you want things to run smoothly and in your favor.
So, if you’ve passed that searching stage, and you’ve found the ideal Sugar Baby to have by your side, you must be now focusing on improving your relationship with your Sugar Baby.
Is it hard work keeping a Sugar Relationship?
The answer to this question is NO, definitely no. But as any other relationship, no matter if we are talking about a love relationship, a friendship, or a professional relationship, you must do your part as you are part of the equation.
So, if you think that having a Sugar Baby is like having your own personal servant, then you are mistaken and perhaps Sugar Dating is not your type of scenario. But if you start your Sugar Commitment knowing that respect and mutual interest in making things work is vital, just as it is in any functional relationship, then you are in for a real treat!
So, getting back to the question mentioned earlier, yes, dating a Sugar Baby involves a certain amount of commitment and work, but no, it is not hard work making the relationship function your way.
What can you do to improve your relationship with your Sugar Baby?
Well, first, you must have a relationship based on full transparency and honesty when it comes to desires and expectations. Knowing what both of you expect from the Sugar Relationship and what the other can offer in return, is key!
- Respect your part of the arrangement
The most important thing that keeps a relationship with a Sugar Baby alive and great is keeping your part of the deal. And that means that if you promised certain things, then you must offer them. This refers to both type of compensation offered to your Sugar Baby, and type of involvement you’ve agreed upon.
To put it in fewer words, if you told your Sugar Baby that you are going to provide her a monthly allowance and one shopping spree a month, you’d better keep your promise, or the terms of your agreement will not be respected. Also, if you told her that you expect her to be available for you 2 times per week for example, make sure not to waste her time by not showing up to your dates.
- Flattery takes you places
Take a step further from what is stipulated in your “verbal agreement” and show your appreciation towards your Sugar Baby by occasionally spoiling her with a special treat – it can be anything from offering her a nice jewelry, to taking her to an impromptu shopping trip, or making an appointment in her name, for a massage or a spa day.
By doing these little gestures, although you are not obliged to do them, you send a message: that you appreciate your Sugar Baby, that you recognize her value in your life, that you care for her and that you are a proper gentleman.
Nice gestures don’t have to cost a fortune but must be done from the heart.
- Listen for once
Although the role of a Sugar Baby in your life is to support you, to elevate your social status and to be your rock, your pillar, the shoulder you can vent on, and forget all about your daily struggles and stress, sometimes it is a good idea to reverse these roles and listen to her for a change.
Ask her things about herself, ask her about her passions and listen to what she has to say, show interest and appreciation and you’ll see that these small things are the ones making a relationship stronger and better.
- Talk about your likes and dislikes
This is a safe place, your Sugar Baby is offering you a space where you can be yourself, as vulnerable as you want to be, without being afraid of mockery. So, use this safe place that your Sugar Relationship is giving you, to name both the things that you like and the ones that annoy you.
Having a Sugar Baby means full transparency. There’s no need to hide behind words or minimize your feelings. If a situation disturbs you, just say it, don’t bottle it up! This way you will only improve your relationship and make things better and stronger between you and your Sugar Baby.
Take our advice into consideration, follow the four steps mentioned above, and you’ll soon have an improved relationship with the Sugar Baby that you adore.