When entering the sugar dating game you need to be aware of a couple of things: there is no certain “recipe” of how to find a Sugar Daddy, it takes time and you need to “kiss” a lot of frogs until meeting your prince, you need to stay honest and genuine, and you need to be extra careful on what websites/apps/platforms you’re creating a profile, because there are many fake, dangerous dating platforms out there.
Find a safe and trustworthy Sugar Dating platform
So, if you are a novice to the sugar dating world and you are looking for ways on how to find a Sugar Daddy online, the first thing you need to do is find the right sugar dating platform for you. Look for a platform that offers you assistance, that is not asking you for unreasonable personal information and that has a clear system of selecting its clientele, so that you can be sure that only top Sugar Daddies and high-class ladies have their profiles approved.
Next, you need to think very carefully about how you want to position yourself as a Sugar Baby and think of ways to make your profile stand out from the crowd and make an impression.
Stay honest and genuine
For better results honesty is always the best policy. Although you won’t get dozens of messages daily in your inbox, at least the messages you receive you know for sure are from potential Sugar Daddies that liked what they saw and what they’ve read on your profile and are curious to get to know you.
That’s the problem about creating false expectations through a profile that doesn’t represent you entirely – you tend to create certain expectations about yourself, your looks, your personality, that will not be met during the face-to-face dates, this leading to an end of the sugar agreement and with you having to start the process of getting a new Sugar Daddy all over again.
Focus on what makes you special
Creating the perfect profile that is representative for you is top priority, because getting the right Sugar Daddy is like getting the right job – it takes work, time, and dedication.
Think of your top three strong points as a woman and potential Sugar Baby and start from there. “Sell” those aspects of your personality that are making you unique, through the photos you’re uploading and the story you’re telling in your description.
Stay positive and fun, and try to have a smile on your face even when you’re texting, because positive vibes can be transmitted through writing also!
State your expectations
Think of what you want to get out of the sugar dating arrangement and have that clearly in your mind during the meet and greet with your potential Sugar Daddy. This is the ideal moment to talk about compensation, about what your expectations are, your boundaries and limits, and also about what you are ok with doing and offering.
Being clear, concise and to the point is highly attractive to Sugar Daddies so this might just earn you an extra point in his eyes.
Focus on him when you’re together
Your time together should be all about being there, present, in the moment. Don’t check your phone, don’t faze out, interrupt him or talk about yourself or your problems obsessively. You are there to offer him your time and attention, so listen to him actively, offer him a warm smile, sympathy and affection and you will soon become his favorite person!