Finding a Sugar Baby in the Sugar Dating scene is not as easy as it may seem at a first glance. The offer is so diverse, and the ladies have such impressive profiles, that it may simply be too hard for a Sugar Daddy to choose. And it is not only the matter of choosing, but also the matter of creating a connection with the Sugar Baby you’re interested in and making her feel like you are the right Sugar Daddy for her.
Join a trustworthy Sugar Dating app, find a Sugar Baby your like and message her. If things start to click and you feel like there is something going on between the two of you, it’s time to set up a Meet and Greet and seal the deal if both of you agree on the terms of your sugar dating arrangement.
Now comes the hard part: respecting your commitment, showing your appreciation towards your Sugar Baby and saying all the right things that will make her happy and ready to up her game to make you happy and fully satisfied.
Although that gorgeous woman by your side is a Sugar Baby that agreed to the terms of your commitment, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t run that extra mile and make her feel appreciated. Now, the most common question among men that are either in a traditional relationship or a Sugar Dating relationship, is “What are the things that a Sugar Baby needs to hear?”.
As difficult as this question may seem to you, the answer to it is very simple: she wants to hear all the things that you also need to hear from your partner, to feel liked, seen, appreciated and worthy. So, think how you’d like to be treated and treat her the same.
The amazing part when you find a Sugar Baby is that you don’t have to do these things, you are not obliged to respect the norms and the rules of traditional dating, and your Sugar Baby doesn’t expect you to do any of the things that are not agreed upon in advance, at the beginning, when you set up the terms and conditions of your Sugar Dating “contract”.
But you know what’s even more incredible? Is that, just because you don’t have to do or say all those things, you may want to do and say them just because you can, just because you are not pressured into it, and she is not expecting you to.
Here are a few of the things a Sugar Baby needs to hear, besides “I have a gift for you”, “I’ve planned a special surprise for tonight” and “Let’s go shopping”!
“I like you just the way you are.”
Isn’t this something we all want to hear from time to time from the people closest to us? We live in a world that is constantly telling us what we need to do to change, to be better, prettier, smarter, funnier, sexier, and this is really exhausting and depressing to hear. So, from time to time it is amazing to hear from someone that you are liked just as you are right now, no improvements needed. Tell your Sugar Baby that next time, and you’ll see her melting in your arms.
“I believe in you.”
We are used to always express an opinion, and we have a hard time being passive listeners. And this is what most of the ones coming to us to tell us their stories and complaints want, to just listen to their problems without feeling the need to fix them or to give them solutions. Try this next time you’re with your Sugar Baby and you’re having an intimate chat, just listen to her and say: “I believe in you, and I believe you’ll make the right decision”, just that, no advice added, unless she’s asking for one.
“Thank you.”
Thank you for supporting me, thank you for that hug, thank you for lifting my spirits, thank you for thinking of me. There’s so much power in these two words, simply because it shows appreciation and acknowledgement. Try to say it more often and you’ll have a very happy Sugar Baby by your side, ready to also show you her appreciation in very intimate ways.
“I see you.”
This is something a little more intimate because it refers to the fact that you see beyond the mask that the Sugar Baby is putting on. And is a very strong and powerful thing to say because it means you are paying attention, you care, you see her for who she really is, behind the strong mask she’s wearing. Relationships would be so much better if we would just take out time to really see the person next to us, don’t you think?
